Saturday, November 12, 2011

My answers to some questions I've received :)

I haven't been writing recently, and I'm sorry because of that.... But I'm here to fix it :)
I've checked my e-mail (which is btw), which I haven't done for months, and I saw so many messages with girls/guys asking me for advice...
I know it's late to answer, but 'better late than never'! Enjoy!

Hey, I saw your blog, and it's pretty amazing... You look like a smart girl so I need your advice.
Well, my name is Maria and I'm 15 years old. This September I started going to highschool and I still can't accept new friends (especially girls). Guys are okay, we hang out after school, play basketball, or go to skate park where we chill... There is always someone to tell me that I'm wrong for being with guys, and I don't know the reason for that. I want to make friends with girls, but they always talk about boys and boyfriends, and my (let's call it) problem is that I actually TALK to boys!
Is this wrong?

I think that you already know the answer ;) If you have more fun with boys than with girls, than you already made your choice ;) And i, personally, think that guy friends are better than girlfriends :)
Something that can (and other girls can't) is talking without fear in boy presence ;) Trust me, soon you'll be thankful for making this choice ;) xoxo

I need your opinion... I kissed one guy, I was half drunk, and I didn't know what I was doing. Now he wants to be with me. What should I do? :(

I think that you don't wanna be with him in relationship, so don't! Why do I think that? Well, you wouldn't send me e-mail if it's different ;) Just trust yourself. Talk to him, be nice, and he will understand that you made a mistake. Ask him if he wants to be friends, if he doesn't leave it that way, if he says 'yes' than don't ignore him. You might actually surprise if he's a nice guy ;) xoxo

I've been five months in relationship with one girl. But her complexes are really annoying. Why can't she understand that she looks beautiful and that she IS beautiful to me? I wouldn't be with her if I don't like her. 

Trust me, every single girl on this planet has complex issue ;) Some of them just can't hide that they are insecure ;) Try to talk with her. Tell her what you said to me, and I think she'll finally understand ;) Don't be afraid to tell her how important she is to you :) xoxo

Hey hey :) First of all: great blog! And I think you should post more frequently :)
I need your advice... I have an eating disorder... I'm 16 and I'm bulimic :( Something inside of me tells me that I'm doing wrong things, but I can't stop... i'm so afraid of food, of eating, and when i do eat, I run to bathroom :( I can't tell my parents (they wouldn't understand me, they would just make me nervous)... What to do? help girl!

I know exactly how you feel.... i've been suffering from bullimia for months now :( I know I'm not good example for others that read this, but here's what I did: First of, I told my bestie about it, she hold my hand and told me that we will make through it together. That I went to school psychologist and talked with her. She's not allowed to tell anyone, and she made me a meal plan. I would eat 2-3 bites of any food every hour at first, than 5-6 bites, than more and more, until i finally get to this point where I actually eat normally. I have those moments when i want to purge... sometimes I do it, but most of the times i control myself. I think self control is the most important thing. Be strong girl! xoxo

How to talk with a guy? I never knew what to say. In what are they interested?

Well, it depends... Most of the guys like talking about sport, girls or betting. Some of them are interested in comics, video games, computer, cars, etc. If there's special person you want to talk with, first find out what he likes :) Than search about it, and start conversation :) it's not that hard, just have self confidence when you talk with boys :) they don't like insecure girls :) xoxo

I know that I'm not pretty outside... but i'd like to look as prettiest as i can. Any tips?

I don't think it's okay that you say that about yourself ;) i bet you ARE pretty :)
But to answer to your question: Make up is there to enhance your features not to hide them ;) Also, find out if curly or straight hair looks better on you, or is it ponytail or fishtail that looks the best? Always dress pretty! I always say that clothes is the most important :) just let it be clean and well combined ;) Nothing else :) Oh, and: SMILE! all the time ;) xoxo

Hi, it's Ann here (: How's you healthy life going? Did you get into perfect shape? How do you feel now? Are you planning to post some recipes? :)

Hey :) Well... my healthy life stopped being healthy life few months ago... I've become bulimic, but I'm trying to control myself not to purge :) It's been great for past few weeks :)
As matter of weight, I've gained... A lot of bad things happened to me since July... But yesterday i decided that it's time to get myself to perfection! And I won't quit! :) Now I'm getting back on track ;) xoxo
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